Shared Ground: A Live Family & Couples Values Workshop

Sale Price: $200.00 Original Price: $250.00

Shared Ground is a 2-hour live private values workshop for households who want more ease, clarity, and shared direction.

Shared Ground is a practical intervention that helps families and couples define what actually matters to them, then use that clarity to make everyday decisions with less friction and more intention.

This is not therapy.
It’s not a venting session.
And it’s not a feel-good conversation that disappears once life gets busy.

It’s the creation of a shared operating system for how your household lives, chooses, and repairs.

If things are good and you want to build on that

Shared Ground is for households who want to:

  • live with more intention and less default

  • reduce decision fatigue around time, money, and energy

  • align daily life with the values they already care about

  • build traditions, routines, and legacy on purpose

  • make sure “good” stays sturdy as life evolves

This work supports:

  • clearer conversations at the dinner table

  • easier decisions about giving back, community, and service

  • alignment around learning, culture, spirituality, and health

  • shared language for what you say yes to and what you release

  • modeling values through lived experience, not just words

  • navigating multi-generational households, including elderly family or in-laws living with you

  • aligning expectations and boundaries in chosen family households, such as roommates or long-term shared living

It turns ideas like “this matters to us” into repeatable, accountable practices.

If things feel hard or stuck

Shared Ground also supports households navigating:

  • repeated conflict that never quite resolves

  • parenting or caregiving transitions like marriage, divorce, pregnancy

  • blended families or co-parenting dynamics

  • stress, growth, or change that’s creating tension

  • tension created by elder care, declining health, or shifting family roles

  • uncertainty around boundaries when extended family dynamics spill into daily life

When values remain unnamed, households often pay for it through:

  • friction fatigue

  • invisible emotional labor

  • decision overload

  • reactive conversations that go nowhere

This process gives you shared language and structure, so repair and decision-making don’t require starting from scratch every time.

Especially relevant for co-parenting across households

If you are parenting alongside another household with different values or limited cooperation, this work still matters.

Shared Ground helps create:

  • clarity and consistency within your primary household

  • shared language between parent and child

  • a grounded reference point that is less reactive and more stable

Your values can be upheld, modeled, and shared without needing permission or agreement from elsewhere.

What happens in the session

This is a live, facilitated workshop held over Zoom.

Together, we:

  • name individual values in plain, human language

  • identify overlap, differences, and priorities

  • define what your household supports and is no longer available for

  • translate values into behaviors you can actually practice

Participation is consent-based and co-created.
No one is pressured to disclose anything they don’t want to share.
You do not need to agree on everything to create shared direction.

Values here are not used to control or police.
They are used to guide choice, care, and repair.

What you leave with

By the end of the session, you will have:

  • 3–6 shared household values, written in your own words

  • values grounded in actions, not abstractions

  • a repeatable reference point for decisions and repair

  • a framework you can return to as your family evolves

Families reuse this work during:

  • parenting decisions

  • seasonal or annual check-ins

  • moments of conflict or transition

  • conversations about boundaries, time, and support

This is designed for longevity, not a one-time insight.

A foundation others can support you from

Many households choose to share their values with:

  • therapists or coaches

  • caregivers, babysitters, or nannies

  • doulas or postpartum support

  • co-parents or trusted extended family

This reduces assumptions and increases alignment, both within your household and for the people supporting those in it.

Logistics

  • Format: Private session, one household at a time

  • Length: 2 hours

  • Participants: Up to 8 household members

  • Where: Online (Zoom)

  • Facilitators: India Tizol or Erica Courdae

Who this is not for

Shared Ground may not be a fit right now if:

  • you are expecting group/family therapy or crisis coaching during this workshop

  • you are not ready for shared agreements or follow-through

If you’re unsure, you can still begin.
Clarity comes from the process.

Final note

This work is not about creating a perfect household.
Shared Ground is built for real life.

It gives you a shared foundation for:

  • how you repair when things don’t go as planned

  • how you practice grace without losing accountability

  • how values guide behavior under pressure, not just when it’s easy

These values shape a household culture rooted in shared intention, honest repair, and choices you’re no longer making on autopilot.

Shared Ground is a 2-hour live private values workshop for households who want more ease, clarity, and shared direction.

Shared Ground is a practical intervention that helps families and couples define what actually matters to them, then use that clarity to make everyday decisions with less friction and more intention.

This is not therapy.
It’s not a venting session.
And it’s not a feel-good conversation that disappears once life gets busy.

It’s the creation of a shared operating system for how your household lives, chooses, and repairs.

If things are good and you want to build on that

Shared Ground is for households who want to:

  • live with more intention and less default

  • reduce decision fatigue around time, money, and energy

  • align daily life with the values they already care about

  • build traditions, routines, and legacy on purpose

  • make sure “good” stays sturdy as life evolves

This work supports:

  • clearer conversations at the dinner table

  • easier decisions about giving back, community, and service

  • alignment around learning, culture, spirituality, and health

  • shared language for what you say yes to and what you release

  • modeling values through lived experience, not just words

  • navigating multi-generational households, including elderly family or in-laws living with you

  • aligning expectations and boundaries in chosen family households, such as roommates or long-term shared living

It turns ideas like “this matters to us” into repeatable, accountable practices.

If things feel hard or stuck

Shared Ground also supports households navigating:

  • repeated conflict that never quite resolves

  • parenting or caregiving transitions like marriage, divorce, pregnancy

  • blended families or co-parenting dynamics

  • stress, growth, or change that’s creating tension

  • tension created by elder care, declining health, or shifting family roles

  • uncertainty around boundaries when extended family dynamics spill into daily life

When values remain unnamed, households often pay for it through:

  • friction fatigue

  • invisible emotional labor

  • decision overload

  • reactive conversations that go nowhere

This process gives you shared language and structure, so repair and decision-making don’t require starting from scratch every time.

Especially relevant for co-parenting across households

If you are parenting alongside another household with different values or limited cooperation, this work still matters.

Shared Ground helps create:

  • clarity and consistency within your primary household

  • shared language between parent and child

  • a grounded reference point that is less reactive and more stable

Your values can be upheld, modeled, and shared without needing permission or agreement from elsewhere.

What happens in the session

This is a live, facilitated workshop held over Zoom.

Together, we:

  • name individual values in plain, human language

  • identify overlap, differences, and priorities

  • define what your household supports and is no longer available for

  • translate values into behaviors you can actually practice

Participation is consent-based and co-created.
No one is pressured to disclose anything they don’t want to share.
You do not need to agree on everything to create shared direction.

Values here are not used to control or police.
They are used to guide choice, care, and repair.

What you leave with

By the end of the session, you will have:

  • 3–6 shared household values, written in your own words

  • values grounded in actions, not abstractions

  • a repeatable reference point for decisions and repair

  • a framework you can return to as your family evolves

Families reuse this work during:

  • parenting decisions

  • seasonal or annual check-ins

  • moments of conflict or transition

  • conversations about boundaries, time, and support

This is designed for longevity, not a one-time insight.

A foundation others can support you from

Many households choose to share their values with:

  • therapists or coaches

  • caregivers, babysitters, or nannies

  • doulas or postpartum support

  • co-parents or trusted extended family

This reduces assumptions and increases alignment, both within your household and for the people supporting those in it.

Logistics

  • Format: Private session, one household at a time

  • Length: 2 hours

  • Participants: Up to 8 household members

  • Where: Online (Zoom)

  • Facilitators: India Tizol or Erica Courdae

Who this is not for

Shared Ground may not be a fit right now if:

  • you are expecting group/family therapy or crisis coaching during this workshop

  • you are not ready for shared agreements or follow-through

If you’re unsure, you can still begin.
Clarity comes from the process.

Final note

This work is not about creating a perfect household.
Shared Ground is built for real life.

It gives you a shared foundation for:

  • how you repair when things don’t go as planned

  • how you practice grace without losing accountability

  • how values guide behavior under pressure, not just when it’s easy

These values shape a household culture rooted in shared intention, honest repair, and choices you’re no longer making on autopilot.

Your Facilitators

Shared Ground is facilitated by India Tizol or Erica Courdae, each bringing a grounded, relational approach to values work with families and couples.

After purchase, you’ll be able to schedule your session with the facilitator whose availability works best for you.

India Tizol (she/her)
India is a certified master Safe Conversations® leader and community designer. She supports individuals, families, and organizations in clarifying values, strengthening communication, and aligning daily life with what matters most. Her work centers lived experience, truth, relational competency, EQ, and practical integration—helping people create foundations they can return to over time.

Erica Courdae (she/her)
Erica is a certified life coach and facilitator who helps people name what matters, navigate complexity, and translate values into everyday action. Her approach is steady, thoughtful, and focused on helping families build clarity and trust through conversation.